Bette Spengler Meuleners stands behind her deceased husband’s name, Alexandrian Henry M. Spengler, with sister-in-law Pat Spengler, brother-in-law Jim Spengler and daughter Melissa Spengler-Hendrickson at the May 27 Memorial Day ceremony in Del Ray. Bette was pregnant with Melissa when her husband was taken captive in Vietnam in 1972.